Thursday, September 1, 2011

‎''Are you free tomorrow?'' No, I'm fucking expensive.



I wish I had missed the first time that we kissed, cause' you broke all your promises :'(


A girl and guy were speeding over 100 mph on a motorcycle

Girl: Slowdown. Im scared.
Guy: No this is fun. 
Girl: No its not. Please, its to scary! 
Guy: Then tell me you love me. 
Girl: Fine, I love you. Slow down! 
Guy: Now give me a BIG hug. 
(Girl hugs him) 
Guy: Can u take my helmet off and put it on? Its bugging me.



In the paper the next day:
A motorcycle had crashed into a building because of break failure. Two people were on the motorcycle, but only one survived. The truth was that halfway down the road, the guy realized that his breaks broke, but he didn't want to let the girl know. Instead, he had her say she loved him, felt her hug one last time, then had her wear his helmet so she would live even though it meant he would die.



I was reading this and tears streamed down my face :'( I started crying so terribly. Been feeling so emo these days and I could not even figure out the reason why :(

                                   
You go on your own way, I'll go your way too ♥


Read the line above again. Then, read this line, To me you are perfect. Well, know what? Don't ever find someone who you can live with. Find someone who you can live without :) 


I love you. You love me. We are a happy family. No, love does not work that way. Instead, relationships are all about tolerating each other, making compromises, adapting to habits you hate and talking things out time after time. It is like for an example. In an arguement, to me a guy should always let me win no matter whether I am wrong or right. Well, the issue is that, would you find someone like that Raveenaa? I might not tho :/ Love is some feeling you have for each other in the early stage. But after marriage? The feeling might no longer be there know? Feelings fade. People change. Even THE weather change. That is why arrange marriage last longer than a love based marriage know? Well, relationships is also about making compromises like where to eat, what to eat and whether we should have fine dining or mamak? Who would be the one paying? You? HIM or share? There is just so much things to be talked about, but at the end of the day, do you think you would be able to withstand him? Tolerate him for all his disgusting nature? A best example is where, I hate people when they talk to me, they do not look me in the eye or my face. They tend to stare at other place and that seriously make me feel like slapping whoever who does that. Do you even know how rude it is? 


People always tell me, with an attitude of yours, you might never find a guy that suits you. Infact I DON'T :) I think all woman should work and be depend on yourself :) Well, unless you find a super rich husband who gives you extra allowances every months RM 10,000 maybe? Well, I never understand certain woman. I mean, what is the point of them getting married if they would be the one looking after the family and the husband just sit at home all day long doing NOTHING! I think, you would live way better without a man like that at home know? I would like to just share a story with you :) It concerns me lately, as he is someone I know. 



Let us just assume this guy as T. T is married to this girl, H. Well, H is only 22 years old know? She got married at a very young age. The story was, this guy T he is a party kind of guy. He is 32 years old. He drinks alcohol a lot! The point is no matter how much he drinks, it is really hard for him to get drunk cause' his body is so used to alcohol since he is a young man. One night, he came home after partying real hard and T and H argued. They fought. H could no longer take it, she finally took the cane and whack the husband. T got pissed because that night, eventhough he went for a party, he did not consume any alcohol at all and when his wife took the cane and whacked the crap out of him, HE SLAPPED HIS WIFE :) 

Now, H left him and went back to her mother's house. When T finally made up his mind to compromise with his wife, he went to H's parents house to ask for forgiveness and bring back his wife. Turned out to be, H's mother she is making her own daughter to divorce this man. T told his mother-in-law saying even at the age of 21, his mother no longer hits him anymore and H whacked him with a cane for nothing. HE WAS NOT EVEN DRUNK that night! Such a pain in the ass this H's mother. I thought people usually comfort others to be back with the guy. Forgive each other. I mean, at the end of the day, you both are married with a daughter right? But, it seemed like H's mother would like her daughter and her son-in-law to divorce and T's mother, is looking after their daughter. Such a pity eh? All I can say is H, she is still young, she is not even mature enough to think know? She is an outgoing person but not her husband, T. 

I always take an example, siblings right? Your brother or your sister. Siblings stay together for so long! Perhaps 15 years of your life? You still tend to argue like that there is not tomorrow. What else is there to say if husband and wife? Relationships? When you argue or fight? 

To sum it all up, no relationship is always fight-free or argument-free. There will always be ups and downs to a relationship. I think you and your partner should always respect each other's opinion, be squabble over the daintiest things, and  love each other passionately like the world would end tomorrow. Don't give a damn what people think of you both as a whole, and certainly do not care about what people say. Because you know that at the end of the day, the whole world can turn against you, but make sure, you both are there for each other. Guys and girls, please know what is best for you alright? Never cheat or lie in a relationship cause' it really do last if things are meant to be. God only create one for each and every one of us :')

You deserve someone who knows how to make things up to you after hurting you. Not someone who is very good with just the word, "sorry."



Picture Of The Day :)
Standing up from left: Khairunisa, Elina and Raja Nur Hanani/Choi Hana
Sitting from left: Myself and Clare :)
Dancing to PUT YOUR HANDS UP BY 2PM :) 


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